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INTERNATIONAL BESTSELLER โข An engaging, deeply researched guide to flourishing in a world of increasing stress and negativityโthe inspiration for one of the most popular TED Talks of all time โPowerful [and] charming . . . A book for just about anyone . . . The philosophies in this book are easily the best wire frames to build a happy and successful life.โโ Medium Happiness is not the belief that we donโt need to change; it is the realization that we can. Our most commonly held formula for success is broken. Conventional wisdom holds that once we succeed, weโll be happy; that once we get that great job, win that next promotion, lose those five pounds, happiness will follow. But the science reveals this formula to be backward: Happiness fuels success, not the other way around. Research shows that happy employees are more productive, more creative, and better problem solvers than their unhappy peers. And positive people are significantly healthier and less stressed and enjoy deeper social interaction than the less positive people around them. Drawing on original researchโincluding one of the largest studies of happiness ever conductedโand work in boardrooms and classrooms across forty-two countries, Shawn Achor shows us how to rewire our brains for positivity and optimism to reap the happiness advantage in our lives, our careers, and even our health. His strategies include: โข The Tetris Effect: how to retrain our brains to spot patterns of possibility so we can see and seize opportunities all around us โข Social Investment: how to earn the dividends of a strong social support network โข The Ripple Effect: how to spread positive change within our teams, companies, and families By turns fascinating, hopeful, and timely, The Happiness Advantage reveals how small shifts in our mind-set and habits can produce big gains at work, at home, and elsewhere. Review: Thought-Provoking but Familiar โ A Solid Read with Some Repetition - I recently finished The Happiness Advantage, and I came away with a refreshed mindset and some new language for how I look at success and happiness. One of the key ideas that really stuck with me is: โHappiness fuels success, not the other way around.โ That idea flipped my usual thinking on its head. Typically we assume work โ success โ happiness, but Achor argues the chain is really happiness โ more engaged brain โ success. Thereโs a passage where he notes that when weโre positive our brains become more engaged, creative, motivated, energetic, resilient, and productive. This resonated clearly. What I appreciate is how Achor weaves science, anecdotes, and practical advice. For example, one of the principle headings is โThe Tetris Effectโ โ where he explains how retraining your mind to spot patterns of possibility (instead of threats) can shift your whole performance. Another is โThe Zorro Circleโ about focusing on small manageable wins and then expanding your circle of competence. These ideas felt useful, tangible, and worth applying. What stood out: The research-backed approach gives legitimacy to what often feels like fluffy self-help. The seven principles are clear, memorable, and each one offers a chance to reflect and adjust. While Iโm not in a corporate boardroom every day, the methods apply to work, life, and even home routines โ which makes this book useful beyond just one setting. Where it feels less strong: A lot of the ideas, while well-presented, arenโt completely new โ I recognized many themes from other personal-development books. If youโve read widely in the genre, you might find yourself nodding in agreement rather than surprised. Because the book covers seven big ideas, the pacing sometimes feels uneven โ certain chapters felt more compelling than others, and a few examples dragged slightly or felt repetitive. Thereโs good advice, but turning it into lasting change still depends heavily on you putting in the work and creating new habits โ which the book acknowledges but doesnโt always walk you through in extreme detail. Overall, though, Iโm glad I read this book. It got me thinking about how I approach work and happiness differently โ and it reminded me that a positive mindset isnโt just โnice to have,โ itโs foundational. If youโre looking to elevate your performance, shift your mindset, or just understand the under-the-hood of positivity and productivity, this is a strong choice. Review: Key insights into how to be happy based in solid psychological research - "The Happiness Advantage: How a Positive Brain Fuels Success in Work and Life" by Shawn Achor is a compelling book that turns traditional thinking about happiness and success on its head. Based on positive psychology principles and research, Achor proposes that happiness is not just a result of success but a precursor to it. Hereโs a summary of key concepts and insights from the book, which I find particularly relevant and insightful: - Positive Psychology at Work: Achor, who spent over a decade at Harvard University studying happiness, draws on his own research and that of others in the field of positive psychology to argue that a positive mindset can significantly increase motivation, efficiency, resilience, creativity, and, ultimately, success in the workplace. - The Happiness Advantage: The core idea of the book is that individuals who cultivate a positive mindset experience a 'happiness advantage'. This advantage manifests as enhanced brain function, which in turn leads to better problem-solving abilities, creativity, and job performance. Achor presents seven principles that individuals can use to improve their happiness and success rates. - Seven Principles: These principles include the power of positive psychology, the fulcrum and the lever (changing your experience of reality through mindset), the Tetris Effect (training your brain to spot patterns of possibility), falling up (finding the path out of failure), the Zorro Circle (focusing on small, manageable goals to gain control over the bigger picture), the 20-second rule (reducing barriers to change with small energy adjustments), and social investment (relying on social support to overcome challenges). - Evidence-Based Strategies: Achor provides practical, evidence-based strategies for increasing happiness and productivity. These include gratitude exercises, the practice of positive journaling, exercise, meditation, and fostering social connections. - Applications in the Workplace: The book also delves into how organizations can apply these principles to create happier and more productive work environments. Achor discusses how positive leadership and a culture that prioritizes happiness can lead to significant improvements in job satisfaction, engagement, and performance. From a professional standpoint, especially for someone with a background in psychology and business, "The Happiness Advantage" offers valuable insights into how positive psychological practices can be leveraged for personal growth and organizational improvement. The book supports the idea that fostering a positive mindset and happiness in individuals can lead to more profound success and fulfillment, not just in their personal lives but also in their professional endeavors. Achorโs work is a testament to the power of positive psychology in transforming workplaces and enhancing leadership effectiveness, making it a valuable resource for consultants aiming to drive positive change in organizations.





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S**M
Thought-Provoking but Familiar โ A Solid Read with Some Repetition
I recently finished The Happiness Advantage, and I came away with a refreshed mindset and some new language for how I look at success and happiness. One of the key ideas that really stuck with me is: โHappiness fuels success, not the other way around.โ That idea flipped my usual thinking on its head. Typically we assume work โ success โ happiness, but Achor argues the chain is really happiness โ more engaged brain โ success. Thereโs a passage where he notes that when weโre positive our brains become more engaged, creative, motivated, energetic, resilient, and productive. This resonated clearly. What I appreciate is how Achor weaves science, anecdotes, and practical advice. For example, one of the principle headings is โThe Tetris Effectโ โ where he explains how retraining your mind to spot patterns of possibility (instead of threats) can shift your whole performance. Another is โThe Zorro Circleโ about focusing on small manageable wins and then expanding your circle of competence. These ideas felt useful, tangible, and worth applying. What stood out: The research-backed approach gives legitimacy to what often feels like fluffy self-help. The seven principles are clear, memorable, and each one offers a chance to reflect and adjust. While Iโm not in a corporate boardroom every day, the methods apply to work, life, and even home routines โ which makes this book useful beyond just one setting. Where it feels less strong: A lot of the ideas, while well-presented, arenโt completely new โ I recognized many themes from other personal-development books. If youโve read widely in the genre, you might find yourself nodding in agreement rather than surprised. Because the book covers seven big ideas, the pacing sometimes feels uneven โ certain chapters felt more compelling than others, and a few examples dragged slightly or felt repetitive. Thereโs good advice, but turning it into lasting change still depends heavily on you putting in the work and creating new habits โ which the book acknowledges but doesnโt always walk you through in extreme detail. Overall, though, Iโm glad I read this book. It got me thinking about how I approach work and happiness differently โ and it reminded me that a positive mindset isnโt just โnice to have,โ itโs foundational. If youโre looking to elevate your performance, shift your mindset, or just understand the under-the-hood of positivity and productivity, this is a strong choice.
D**R
Key insights into how to be happy based in solid psychological research
"The Happiness Advantage: How a Positive Brain Fuels Success in Work and Life" by Shawn Achor is a compelling book that turns traditional thinking about happiness and success on its head. Based on positive psychology principles and research, Achor proposes that happiness is not just a result of success but a precursor to it. Hereโs a summary of key concepts and insights from the book, which I find particularly relevant and insightful: - Positive Psychology at Work: Achor, who spent over a decade at Harvard University studying happiness, draws on his own research and that of others in the field of positive psychology to argue that a positive mindset can significantly increase motivation, efficiency, resilience, creativity, and, ultimately, success in the workplace. - The Happiness Advantage: The core idea of the book is that individuals who cultivate a positive mindset experience a 'happiness advantage'. This advantage manifests as enhanced brain function, which in turn leads to better problem-solving abilities, creativity, and job performance. Achor presents seven principles that individuals can use to improve their happiness and success rates. - Seven Principles: These principles include the power of positive psychology, the fulcrum and the lever (changing your experience of reality through mindset), the Tetris Effect (training your brain to spot patterns of possibility), falling up (finding the path out of failure), the Zorro Circle (focusing on small, manageable goals to gain control over the bigger picture), the 20-second rule (reducing barriers to change with small energy adjustments), and social investment (relying on social support to overcome challenges). - Evidence-Based Strategies: Achor provides practical, evidence-based strategies for increasing happiness and productivity. These include gratitude exercises, the practice of positive journaling, exercise, meditation, and fostering social connections. - Applications in the Workplace: The book also delves into how organizations can apply these principles to create happier and more productive work environments. Achor discusses how positive leadership and a culture that prioritizes happiness can lead to significant improvements in job satisfaction, engagement, and performance. From a professional standpoint, especially for someone with a background in psychology and business, "The Happiness Advantage" offers valuable insights into how positive psychological practices can be leveraged for personal growth and organizational improvement. The book supports the idea that fostering a positive mindset and happiness in individuals can lead to more profound success and fulfillment, not just in their personal lives but also in their professional endeavors. Achorโs work is a testament to the power of positive psychology in transforming workplaces and enhancing leadership effectiveness, making it a valuable resource for consultants aiming to drive positive change in organizations.
R**B
Solid, worthwhile, actionable read.
The Happiness Advantage is an accessible, fairly entertaining introduction to positive psychology. The advice is simple, largely actionable, and helpful in keeping focused on happiness---and understanding ways in which obsessive focus on productivity can, in actuality, be highly counter-productive. Well-cited and including fun and memorable anecdotes, the book keeps a fairly light-hearted tone while providing plenty of useful data. Achor's humor is hit-and-miss, and his writing abilities are moderate to good. Achor does wax a bit long-winded at points, though never beyond the point of slight annoyance. Don't come in with bloated expectations, and you should enjoy and learn from this book. Now, let me address some of the "low star" reviews: 1) "This book is author-centric." Yes. Achor's use of anecdotes tend to emphasize his own expertise and that he's right. To psychoanalyze the psychologist here, I'd say Achor's background of being the small fish in the big pond---at Harvard, surrounded by more extensively educated, wealthy individuals, as well as in dealing with CEOs around the world---gave him a sense that he needed to prove himself. He talks himself up more than is tasteful, but it's a minor distraction at most. Beyond that, what we're talking about is many anecdotes from Achor's personal and professional life. I like when authors use themselves as examples. We write what we know, after all. Why shouldn't we be our own examples? 2) "This book is a manifesto for maintaing the status quo." Pffft. No it's not. I'm a socialist myself, but unless you assume "productivity" and "profit" are synonymous (they're not), this book is valuable. It's about being able to balance our psychological limitations and resources in a way that maximizes how much we can do. What we do with our resources after is up to us. Now, I will gladly note here that Achor's use of examples and language contain a definite upper-class, male bias. He is discussing the stories and struggles of "poor old white American CEOs." On the one hand: boo freaking hoo. On the other: These are well-cited, documented, and effective studies/examples that validate Achor's points. I do wish he'd applied it to more than the business setting (I assume his choice to do so was based on selling the book, in which case the choice was wise for that outcome), and wish he hadn't used some of the implicitly sexist language he had. But, again, a minor distraction. 3) The book is all about "cliche-level advice." Are these ideas you've heard before? Yep. Achor's work here is not as a philosopher, but as a synthesizing writer who brings together existing ideas, scientific studies, and memorable anecdotes. He makes points that seem at least somewhat common sense, then validates and reinforces them, and turns them to an actionable form at the end (at least to some degree, a "here's _how_ you can apply it." The advice can be seen as cliche, but we live in a world of contradictory cliches---a million things we've heard before but that strive to create very different worlds. I like the world the advice here tries to create. 4) You could sum up the books core points in half a page. Yes, you certainly could. (Isn't that true of most books?) But it would not give the same benefit as the book. As with most books of this nature, many of the pages are filled with illustrative stories and studies. I find that useful rather than tiresome, although Achor could have certainly trimmed a bit around the edges. So, no, this isn't a "learn lots of new ideas" book. This is a "learn scientific reinforcement and some fun stories to validate ideas you've already heard." It's a good set of reminders to keep a person's perspective tuned toward, and their priorities elevating, happiness. 5) These principles don't cause happiness, they correlate with it. Ah, the old scientific conundrum. Achor certainly does _not_ take a lot of time showing the methodology or similar that would demonstrate how the positive outcomes causes happiness rather than being caused by it (and I wish he had!). He cites his sources well, though, and does clarify that they have been found to be causative rather than correlative. That said: Cause-Effect is a shallow view of human emotions, imho. We function as holistic creatures with many integrated emotional and mental systems. Having advice, outlook, etc., that adjusts one end of the circle will adjust the other. That it's difficult to discern exact causation does not negate the usefulness of this book; happiness and success are connected in a relational, reciprocal way, and using the approaches given by this book (as well as positive psychology in general) can certainly help. 6) The reading is bad. I have both the audiobook and the physical book. Listen to the TED talk before getting the audiobook; you will like his reading if you liked the talk. I certainly enjoyed Achor's reading.
S**A
Happiness Advantage Is Useful for Educational Settings
I cannot remember why I decided to add The Happiness Advantage: The Seven Principles of Positive Psychology that Fuel Success and Performance at Work. to my Kindle. It sat unread for months. Once I started reading, I couldn't stop. I was intrigued by the way Shawn presented key psychological theories in an easy to read format. While the heavy emphasis on business applications and life at Harvard were not of direct interest, I could apply what he was saying to my general life. After reading the book, I understand why people struggle to perform at their optimal level when they do not harbor a positive attitude. While the ability to retrain a negative or positive brain is possible, it requires dedication to the process of adjusting one's mindset. Shawn provides insight into how this can be accomplished along with ways to short circuit bad habits that have a deleterious effect on one's outlook. In the latter chapters, he focuses on concrete ways to modify one's behavior. The road to change can be arduous, but Shawn provides a road map that can be followed. I can see how his key ideas could enhance K-12 education. Far too often the motto in American schools is to work hard and then you will be successful and happy. This runs counter to the latest psychological theories of happiness and success. Current theories shared by Shawn show that "When we are happy-when our mindset and mood are positive-we are smarter, more motivated, and thus more successful. Happiness is the center, and success revolves around it." While quantifying levels of happiness in a classroom situation may be tricky. Shawn points to the emotions of joy, gratitude, serenity, interest, hope, pride amusement, inspiration, awe and love. How many American classrooms exhibit these qualities? Scientific data illustrates how positive emotions fuel brain chemicals. These chemicals make it easier for the brain to process new information and retrieve it quicker and can also aid analysis and problem solving. Just this simple morsel of information could make a huge difference in the productivity level of struggling students. The rest of the book has a treasure trove of information that can be applied to the classroom. I recommend this book to teachers who feel under pressure to raise the achievement levels of a low performing classroom as well as teachers who are lucky to be in an environment where test scores are not an issue. Understanding the mechanisms associated with happiness will shed light on a number of issues that will improve classroom environments as well as the overall quality of life.
N**H
Love this book and the power of positivity!
The book "The Happiness Advantage" by Shawn Anchor delves into the connection between happiness and success. Anchor, a positive psychology researcher, argues that happiness is not a result of success but rather a precursor. Below is an overview of the seven fundamental principles presented in "The Happiness Advantage.โ 1. The Happiness Advantage: Most believe that success leads to happiness. The author flips this around and actually suggests the opposite, that happiness leads to success. When we feel happy, we are more productive, creative and have more energy and motivation. Our brains function better. 2. The Fulcrum and Lever: The author suggests that mindset and perception act as a fulcrum and a lever, influencing our ability to change our circumstances. A positive mindset can change our perception, allowing us to overcome obstacles and adapt to change more quickly, changing our performance. 3. The Tetris Effect: We get stuck in patterns based on experiences. This principle describes how our negative experiences and external factors like stress make us notice negative patterns. Nevertheless, if we focus on our positive experiences, we become more optimistic and look at our failures as opportunities for growth. 4. Falling Up: Anchor suggests that when we are at our weakest moments and experience stress and defeat. Our brains rewire themselves to enable us to cope. This principle talks about finding our mental path to happiness and away from feelings of distress and failure. 5. The Zorro Circle: The author suggests this concept spotlights how mastering small goals within our control will help us build the confidence to take on larger goals more confidently. 6. The 20-Second Rule: Anchor talks about our habits' role in our lives and suggests that making minor adjustments in those habits can lead to big changes. The likelihood of us following through increases by reducing the active energy it takes to start positive habits. 7. Social Investment: Anchor emphasizes that expressing gratitude and building strong relationships and social connections are significant because they increase happiness and well-being. In conclusion, the book "The Happiness Advantage" gives us valuable strategies to help people harness the power of positivity and happiness to succeed in different areas of their lives. Using the power of positive psychology and making small mindset and behavior changes can significantly impact us and the people we come in contact with every day. The author highlights how our personal happiness creates a ripple effect, affecting our co-workers, friends, family members, and the people we interact with daily. We can create a more positive environment by just being happy.
D**E
Be Happy. Be Successful.
Growing up in a middle-class family, post-WWII, the prevailing notion I inherited was that once you become successful, then you can be happy. "Successful" was defined as having more money than God...or at least as much as someone we knew who was apparently happy like the town bank president or the owner of the Chevrolet dealership. These people were by all measures happy because they were successful. So my hopeful goal was to figure out a way to be successful and then, by some miracle, I'd become happy. Not so, says human potential expert Shawn Achors. In fact, not only is it untrue, the reverse is accurate: Be Happy. Be Successful. And Achors has the research to back it up. Reading this book is a bit like sorting through a compilation of positive psychology research, written in somewhat of a story-telling format, while experiencing the author's delightful sense of humor. I rarely laugh out loud reading b-books. I did with this one...on a flight to a speaking engagement...waking up the person seated next to me. Achors offers up his seven principles in such an accessible style that to read them is to begin practicing them. They are duplicable, not just by the bank president or Chevy dealer, but by the rest of us, too. In fact, we may be in a better position to practice them into habits because we are more open to making the switch from success/happiness to happiness/success. We entrepreneurs resist the corporate trappings that encumber change--the frozen chosen--and welcome an opportunity to focus our sights on a new bullseye--Be Happy to Be Successful. Buy the book, hit the target, and discover which one of these seven principles prompts you to higher achievement the quickest as you read it. The one that insightfully jump-started me was the one about investing more deeply in social connections. Most of us entrepreneurs (solopreneurs) when confronted with a negative world or down economy, go inside to figure it out and work harder. (At least the men do...see Ivan Misner's new book, Networking and Sex: It's Not What You Think.) Achors says happy, successful business professionals go outside to figure it out, investing in their relationships more deeply, and discover a "friendsource" positive response. I got on the phone the next morning and guess what? Achors is right--it works. So do his other six principles. One other experience I had with this book: every time I read a chapter, my own positivity improved. My own happiness increased which activitated the ripple effect of spreading the happiness to my partners at work and home. What a novel idea--a book that delivers more than information, but an experience germinated in the soil of that information. Get your copy today so you will Be Happy/Be Successful. You'll be glad, er happy, you did.
G**N
A great resource and a pleasure to read
Shawn Achor proposes this overarching principle: "Happiness is the center, and success revolves around it." (p. 37) Achor depicts happiness like the core of a wheel, powering a smooth and speedy glide, or a lack of happiness putting a brake on the spin of success. This idea is meant to contrast with the notion that success comes first, bringing happiness in its wake. The author is a management consultant, and he marshals an impressive spread of research from the fields of psychology and management, as well as consulting anecdotes. A witty and concise writer, this book is a joy to read as well. Overall, Shawn Achor argues that increasing people's day-to-day happiness will pay off with more successful teams, more successful organizations, and more success in people's individual careers. He offers big-picture reflections as well as a handy toolkit for increasing one's quotient of the Happiness Advantage. The author's advice on how to increase happiness in the workplace is meant for anyone in the working world -- not just CEOs. The primary focus is on the person reading the book, sharing advice on how to boost one's own happiness in an organizational context. It speaks to "the ripple effect" too -- spreading happiness around to others, brightening the ambiance and contributing to overall success. I like this book a lot. At the same time, I can imagine a results-driven line of skepticism that might ask, aren't we happier when we're winning? One might think that high achievement will tend to give rise to happy people on teams and happiness individually in careers. Right? Shawn Achor says no, it's the other way around -- that happiness is a driver of success in organizations and individual careers. While this book may not fully resolve a chicken-and-egg conundrum to everyone's satisfaction, it surely puts something very good on the table. Achor targets happiness as an independent factor in the workplace. He offers an impressive spread of evidence for the "Happiness Advantage" and a helpful set of practical tips and techniques. I'm happy that I read it.
I**N
youโll be happy. The success could be the raise in your ...
This book, published six years ago, succinctly captures seven principles that will enhance anyoneโs work life. While many of the ideas are found elsewhere, this is an engaging summary account. If you take the advice to heart, you will have a distinct advantage in the workplace. I will share just three principles. The first is the debunking of a myth. The myth is that if you work hard, you can achieve success in your chosen field, and once you achieve success, youโll be happy. The success could be the raise in your salary or position in the organization, status or great wealth. Ground-breaking research in the fields of positive psychology and neuroscience, has demonstrated unequivocally that there is a relationship between success and happiness - however not in the direction we commonly assume. Meta-analysis of happiness research of over 200 scientific studies on nearly 275,000 people, demonstrates that happiness leads to success in nearly every area of our lives, from marriage to health, and more specifically in our careers and businesses. Success does not lead to happiness; happiness leads to success! Success is not the cause of happiness: it is the result of happiness as evidenced by literally thousands of scientific studies. This explains the title of the book โ The Happiness Advantage. One simple illustration was an experiment with 4-year olds that demonstrated the positive effects of happiness on solving puzzles. Some of the children were first asked to recall events that made them happy, and the others were simply asked to solve the puzzle. In the lives of 4-year olds, the event that made them happy was recalling the jelly they had at lunch, and this made them more successful. Similarly, happy recollections had a positive effect on the accuracy of doctors doing a complex diagnosis! Finding anything in your day at work that makes you feel happier will make you more productive. While this may seem simplistic, the scientific evidence is unassailable, and it would be ridiculous not to use this insight. That is why sophisticated companies cultivate working environments where employees experience small bursts of happiness - sharing birthday cake or a quick game of pool. You too could do this in your business. Another principle for improving happiness and consequently success, Achor calls โthe Tetris Effectโ. In one study students played Tetris, (a shape-forming computer game,) for hours. For days after the study, some participants literally couldnโt stop seeing the world as sets of Tetris shapes, from books on tables to actually dreaming about shapes falling from the sky. This effect is called a โcognitive afterimage,โ very similar to the dots in your vision seconds after someone takes a flash-photograph of you. Achor describes work he had been doing with the tax accountant KPMG, to help their tax auditors and managers become happier. These are people who spend 8 to 14 hours a day finding errors in tax forms and like the students who had played Tetris, their brains were becoming wired to look for mistakes. โWhen they went home to their families, they noticed only the Cโs on their kidsโ report cards, never the Aโs.โ The problem is being unable to compartmentalize abilities: athletes who canโt stop competing with their friends or families, and managers who canโt stop micromanaging their childrenโs lives. This is the negative Tetris Effect. Imagine a way of seeing that constantly picked up on the positives in every situation - the Positive Tetris Effect: โInstead of creating a cognitive pattern that looks for negatives and blocks success, it trains our brains to scan the world for the opportunities and ideas, that allow our success rate to grow.โ Armed with positivity, the brain is open to possibility. โWe can train our brains to let in these messages that make us more adaptive, more creative, and more motivatedโmessages that allow us to spot and pounce on more opportunities at work,โ Achor explains. A now well-known study of the U.S. MetLife insurance agents, found that the more positive agents sold 37% more insurance than the more negative ones. When the company committed to hire agents picked solely on the basis of their positive thinking style, these agents out-sold their more negative colleagues by 21% in their first year of work, and by 57% in their second. The best way to kick-start this process is by listing the good things in your work and your life, daily. โIn just five minutes a day, this trains the brain to become more skilled at noticing and focusing on possibilities for personal and professional growth, and seizing opportunities to act on them.โ Achorโs โSocial Investmentโ happiness principle, is putting time and effort into friends, peers, and family members, probably our greatest single asset class. When disaster and collapse happened in the financial world in 2008, traders didnโt retreat to the stronghold of their teams in bars and coffee shops, as they normally did after a day of trading. They all walked off silent and alone. โAt the very time that they needed one another most, they were forgoing their most valuable resource: their social support,โ Achor notes. It is so easy and common to retreat into our own shells at the very moment when we most need to be reaching out to others. However, the most successful people, instead of turning inward, hold more tightly to their social support. These people are not only happier, but they are more productive, energetic, and resilient. The Harvard Men study, a 70-year study of 268 of Harvard freshmen in the late 1930s to the present, demonstrated that our relationships with other people matter more than anything else in the world. Bar none. When we have a spouse, family, friends, or colleagues we can count on, we multiply our emotional, intellectual, and physical abilities, recover from setbacks faster, and accomplish more. In another study researching the characteristics of the happiest 10% of people, one characteristic stood out above all others: the strength of their social relationships. If you must cut out some part of life to cope with the demands on your time, your social connections should be the last on the list. โWhen set adrift, it seems, those of us who hold on to our raftmates, not just our rafts, are the ones who will stay afloat,โ says Achor pithily. The value of this book lies in the specific, actionable, and proven principles that predict success and achievement, and that can and should be incorporated into oneโs life. Doing so will give you the โhappiness advantageโ that has been proven to increase success. Readability Light --+-- Serious Insights High -+--- Low Practical High -+--- Low *Ian Mann of Gateways consults internationally on leadership and strategy and is the author of Strategy that Works.
A**T
the psychological effort of humanity was focused Eeyore like on the negative side of our mental lives
How many times have you read this; This book will change your life. Ahem, well, actually this book will change your life if you let it. Building on the work of Martin Seligman at Penn State University, Shawn Achor is one of the new young turks in psychology taking the findings of positive psychology and applying them to business and everyday life. These ideas are quite revolutionary, as is the whole of positive psychology predicated as it is on using what we know about our brains to enable us to use them more effectively. Before positive psychology came along, the psychological effort of humanity was focused Eeyore like on the negative side of our mental lives, exploring all of the things that could go wrong with the complex human mind. Mental illness and psychology were basically synonyms, with the medical disciplines fetishising when brains go wrong over applying its understandings in a more balanced, life-affirming way. Positive psychology restores that balance, acknowledging that there's a lot we can do in weeding our own mental garden in a manner that means we live as happy a life as possible. In fact, the premise of Shawn's wonderful book is that - happiness doesn't follow success, it is the other way round. We are, Achor says (and he backs his assertions up with buckets of evidence and examples) more likely to be successful when we are positive and happy - up to 30% more successful - because brains in a positive state are more imaginative, responsive and flexible. The book contains 7 basic principles which Achor calls the Happiness Advantage. He is a persuasive and entertaining writer and public speaker, his TED talk is here and as you can see his work is gaining a lot of attention (12 million hits and counting). The principles range from considering our everyday interactions with people through to re-setting our negative defaults to sift the environment for positive things that if our moods instead of simply worrying about what might or mightn't happen in the future. I have a copy of this book and also an audio-copy which I use in work and with some of the people I support. The book is replete with fantastic insights and ideas. The 7 principles being; 1. The Happiness Advantage - Being happy gives you an edge or an advantage in terms of achieving success so happiness should be our focus, not success. Achor calls this the Copernican revolution in psychology, happiness leading to success instead of the mistaken beliefs we have about success making us happy. 2. The Fulcrum and the Lever - Re-calibrating our mental responses toward the positive will move our internal psychological fulcrum giving us much greater leverage with a brain singing with positive neurotransmitters rather than one paralysed by negativity, doubt and worry. 3. The Tetris Effect - Basically, this is neuroplasticity (the tendency of the human brain to change and adapt neural networks dependent on what we are doing) in action, we are what we repeatedly do. If we play Tetris for long enough everything block-like in the real-world can appeal to our Tetris habituated brain as a shape within the remit of the game and we can find ourselves trying to fit blocks together out in the real-world, blocks made of fences, walls, buildings or bricks just we happen to be passing. If we tip of brains response towards the positive we will see opportunity and creativity where before we might have seen challenge and stress. (On this point Kelly McGonigal in her wonderful TED talk makes a similar point.) 4. Falling Up - This is a fascinating chapter all about how we can reset our daily to defaults to maximise our happiness experiences, such pearls of wisdom here. Quick happiness wins we can all build into our daily experience to lift our subjective experience toward the positive. 5. The Zorro Circle - This is about being very clear and focused about what you want to achieve everyday and ensuring you do your very best by building the skills which enable you to achieve those daily goals. 6. The 20 Second Rule - This takes forward the examples from Principle 4 and gives many examples of how we can prime our default responses to ensure we overcome any inertia around changing bad habits, for example, if we want to jog first thing in the morning, go to bed wearing Gym clothes. 7 - Social Investment - As social animals this principle acknowledges the importance of making strong, supportive connections with others (colleagues and friends) in ensuring we maximise our happiness. All in all one of the best development, self-help books I've read in a while. Heartily recommended and I will be spending several years implementing its suggestions in terms of leading and managing successful teams at my work-place and convincing colleagues to do the same. ***** (Five Stars)
T**E
Highly recommend for leaders
Good book with principles of positive psychology applied in the workplace, with practical examples and what to do. Some good insights for workshops too. Highly recommend for leaders
P**O
practical tools to happiness
The authorโs sense of humor makes this book so enjoyable. It is dense and packed with information - which can be challenging to get through. However, if you focus on all the practical tools and the life changing information, it gets more exciting as you envision all the changes you can make in your life!
G**E
Il giusto mindset
Forse non tutte le tecniche descritte per essere felici sono efficaci ma il principio di cercare di essere felici in modo che questo ci porti poi al successo e' portentoso.... Ne ho regalate decine di copie a amici e collaboratori.
J**N
Beschadigd boek
Boek is helaas beschadigd aangekomen
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