The Hidden Power of Kindness: A Practical Handbook for Souls Who Dare to Transform the World, One Deed at a Time

Listen with a humble heart and open mind. This book teaches you how to be more kind and on what area of your life you are not being kind.

Humankind is so gosh darn communal! We must interact with people all the time. Our greatest joys and our greatest hurts often come from the actions or words of others. Some folks are a joy to be around, and some folks are a strain for even short spells. Mix in the sinful nature of mankind and you get one big social mess. Christ is the answer of course, but how do we: 1. Navigate the infinite twists and turns of motives, emotions, deeds, words, joys, hurts, gossip, detraction, malice, courtesies, judgments, etc. in others? and 2. Know if our own social motives, behavior, and words are in accordance with God's will? Father Lovasik provides the answer in this practical guide to kindness. Don't let the title fool you, this book covers the whole sandbox of human virtues and vices regarding human interaction. After reading this book, you will know how to deal with social dysfunction in others and you will be enlightened with your own social flaws / remedies. Every positive concept is defined, examined, illustrated with examples, and bolstered with solid scripture, theology and common sense, while every negative concept is defined, examined, illustrated with examples, and remedied using scripture, theology and common sense. This book is denominationally neutral, so all Christians should glean much from this fine work. Get your highlighter because it is full of treasured quotes. Now I know why Patrick Coffin has this book on his top 16 Christian books of all time. It is truly one of the best books I have ever read.

This is hands down one of the most inspiring books I have ever read. Fr. Lovasik really pushes the reader toward greater holiness by encouraging the practice of kindness. The author begins the book with an observation that struck close to home for me--that because one is spiritually devout does not mean one is kind. Some very religious people, he notes, can also be very unkind. So what exactly does the author mean by kindness? In short: If you raise your voice in anger (even to your spouse or children), you are being unkind. If you insist on having the last word in an argument, you are being unkind. If you talk about others behind their backs, you are being unkind. If you listen to gossip, you are being unkind. If you speak with sarcasm, you are being unkind. If three of you are sitting at a table and two of you engage in a conversation in which the other person is left out, you are being unkind. If you wait for others to ask for help before you offer assistance, you are being unkind. If you don't smile enough, you are being unkind. If you jump to negative conclusions about people you meet, you are being unkind. The list goes on and on. Fr. Lovasik stresses that it is the "little" things in life that often have profound everlasting consequences. Regardless of how faithfully we might pray or read the Bible or attend Mass, it is our kindness that draws people to God--and our unkindness that repels them. Kindness and unkindness alike are contagious, the author points out. Something as small as a smile can brighten another person's day; a frown or a harsh word can have the opposite effect. If you don't like to have your toes stepped on, this book is not for you. If, on the other hand, you're looking for someone to help you conform to the image of Christ, this is a must read.

Caused me to change my ways.

I highly recommend! It dives deep into the concept of kindness, providing not just a broad understanding but also practical tips on incorporating it into your daily life. From mindful thoughts to kind words and actions, the book offers actionable steps for anyone who wants to cultivate more kindness in themselves and the world around them. Whether you're a seasoned self-improvement enthusiast or just starting your journey, this book has valuable insights and inspiration to offer.

This is a practical guide that opens one’s eyes to the importance of kindness. It explains the ways that one can be unkind without really thinking about it. This world gives credit to the person who is quick with a thoughtless comment, which could really hurt someone. If everyone became aware of all the ways in which they should be kind, bullying would no longer be a problem. Kindness could prevail. People have just become callus to the feelings and needs of others. This book is a good reminder to us all of the importance of kindness!

This book should be read by everyone, if it was this world would be such a different place

This book is a gem for the spiritual life. It was recommended by my spiritual director when I was in a real self pity slump. The Lord spoke to my heart through this book in a way that gave me a totally different outlook. Years later I ordered it for a friend who was suffering injustices and having trouble seeing the light. She later told me that she spent a day praising God for the author and everyone who had anything to do with this book coming to her. I must admit that I was rather turned off by the title because it sounds like just another "self help" book, instead of the very orthodox Catholic spiritual guide that it is.

Good book.

Brilliant book! I really needed this ! It has helped me to see how I can become kinder ! Kindness has made me a happier person 😊

Muy practico y bien fundado espiritualmente. Para todos aquellos que se dan cuenta que pueden mejorar en la relación con las personas con las que convive diariamente. Recomendable para creyentes, que descubrirán el sencillo secreto y el fundamento de la amabilidad y para no creyentes que encontraran en el libro una fuente de inspiración para su vida diaria

I have just begun reading this book. We are actually reading it at the Legion of Mary meetings. It is an amazing book and every 21st Century catholic should read it. It dose put you to the test in areas you do not expect. It is straightforward and does not mince words. A good read indeed. A good book to use for meditation too.

It was highly recommended to me and it definitely was a true recommendation. Valuable information for living and growing ..... so glad I listened to my friend.