How to Make Anyone Fall in Love with You

Had never read anything from this author before but now that I have, I absolutely love her work! Her voice and narrative is witty, engaging, factual and straightforward. Aside from putting forth useful techniques that also empower growth, the author relies in interesting stories that could easily be remembered and shared with others. You will definitely come out smarter, funnier and a more interesting human being after reading her work. I also highly recommend another book of hers, “How to Talk to Anyone: 72 little tricks for Big Success in Relationships.”

I liked this book and I will have to reread it a couple of times to fully understand and remember the good stuff. I especially like how it is based on proper research. Not just one person's say so. Some of it you might already know. Some of it will be new and surprising.Some people have said it makes you act fake and not like yourself. That's a good thing! If you are reading this, you need advice on both what to do, and what NOT to do, since you're obviously not doing the right things. And if NOT giving advice straight away to their problems, or talking about feelings, is what is necessary, then amke a change and do it dammit. Have some self control and make a slight change in your own behaviour. You'll open your own mind, and you won't think it's chainging yourself after you do it a few times. Besides, if it helps you meet some good people, both men and women, then what's bad about it?For me, the single thing which stands out is asking a single question to women- How do you FEEL about that? The ladies love to talk about feelings and it NEVER fails to get a response and always helps keep the conversation going.Overall a good and useful read, if only for the single tip above.

This book changed my life. If you need to build up your self confidence and need help building your social skills, I recommend this book. I bought it with the intent of helpling find a relationship, but instead it has helped me make friends and understand people. It is one of my treasured posessions. I love this book.

Nice but there are too many stereotypes in the book... I like the first part (e.g. eye contact) much more than the second part ...

bought this like 3 times because people borrow it and end up keeping it

Well written. Leil Lowndes presents helpful information concerning a mate. Then she tells how to capture the heart of your quarry.The book is very well written and the author is definitely qualified in this realm. I recommend reading it.

A very well written book that explains exactly what goes on when one falls in love, and then how to manipulate the circumstances by doing the "right things" to maximize your chances. Impressively, the book is not written in a manner that's gender specific, and in addition provides some keen insights into how the opposite gender works. That said, the male insight is a little over generalized (it was a female author), but it's still quite applicable.For instance, the section on "bedroom eyes" explains that all things being equal, the person with the dilated pupils is more attractive; the author then sites a study showing this to be the case, then explains the psychological reasons why this matters. Then, to follow up, she provides tricks to artificially dilate your own pupils during a conversation, making you subconsciously more attractive to the other person.In the section on conversation, she talks about various stages of communication people go through as their relationship grows. By listening for particulars and echoing them back in verbiage from a closer context of familiarity, it is possible to accelerate the feeling of intimacy.Very practical and interesting advice, whether you want to click with someone new or enhance the relationship you already have.

I personally like this book and think that everyone should read it. I read the paperback version back in 2005 and it was excellent. It is and has been one of the most influential dating books that I have ever read.

I am the kind of girl that hangs around in the self help section (or should that be "personal development section"?) of bookshops.I am not a desperado, I am not Bridget Jones, I don't feel the need to live my dating life by specific rules. However, I love to know what makes people tick!This is an interesting little book of scientifically based, well researched titbits of information, written in an engaging and humorous style. It keeps getting pinched by my friends so its not on my shelf much anymore, but its great, and there are points of pure genius in here ;) Enjoy.....

good love tips

I recieved the used book in good condition. But I recieved the old edition. Although it was quite cheap, it would have been nice to know. The book is really nice and interesting. I have actually read it before but only bought this as a keepsake and to see if there are any updates. Oh well.

I already had a paper copy but its a bit embarrassing reading it on the train so this is perfect. Leil Lowndes is a good author with some great suggestions on how to improve how you come across and make a good impression.

There is some serious stuff in this book, informative and backed up with proven studies. Enjoyed reading it and cannot criticise any of the findings or the way the book is written, as all of it makes real sense - I just hope it works for me!