How to Be a 3% Man, Winning the Heart of the Woman of Your Dreams

Married for over 20 years, widowed, and entered the dating world. I had a reasonable idea about being a good man, but no idea about women. My first relationship introduced me to Corey's YouTube videos and she downloaded this and his other book Mastering Yourself onto Audible and we listened to them together. I realised after I had broken it off with her that she knew it intimately and had been quietly trying to guide me. I decided there was real value in the information and I needed to take it seriously and apply it if I wanted to achieve my goals. I listened to it time after time after time until now I know a lot of it off by heart and have absorbed a lot of it into who I am, but still listen to it to not lose track. Long story short it has changed my relationships remarkably and exactly as Corey describes. Men respect me much more and quality women want me more, they just started falling out of the sky all around me. I couldn't do the numbers game he recommends but just quietly pursued my passions, made my list, interacted with lots of women, and waited with my eyes open. I am now with a beautiful, young, intelligent, wise, and feminine woman, who repeatedly tells me I am so different to any other man she's been with and loves the xyza out of me, just as Corey says. I've since bought copies of the book for young men around me, telling them of my experience and the power of self development books, and this one in particular for becoming a good, strong, man and finding a wonderful mate, and how I wish I'd had it when I was younger as it would have helped immensely with my marriage and life. It's easy to criticise the language Corey uses, or the presentation or editing of the book, or think it is a superficial and cynical road map for seducing and discarding women, but if you are serious about becoming a good, strong man who is in the 3% and wanting to find yourself a similarly high quality mate, or a woman who wants to understand relationships also, do what Corey says and read it at least 10 - 15 times, absorb it into your being, and live it, and in time you will deliver for yourself what he describes. Thanks Corey for doing this for us.

CW delivers much insight into how to conduct yourself in getting and maintaining relationships. The fairy tale days are over. Time to adjust to how things really work.

So yes, I am an outwardly looking very feminine gay woman, but with a masculine leaning mind who has struggled in my relationships with other gay women. I tend to prefer women who are more emotionally feminine than myself and hence the struggle. After reading this book, I can already see the mistakes that I have made in my dating life (e.g., buying gifts for women much too early when dating, getting anxious when dating them early in the process and demonstrating needy behaviors, becoming insecure with myself especially with highly attractive women when dating them, being taken advantage of by women who just want me to spend money on them). I used to think the women I date, especially the very attractive ones, were playing games with me when they pulled away. I did not realize that their behaviors were normal and a "test" of my emotional strength and I suffered emotionally during these times. There are few if any books out there that directly cater to gay women with more masculine emotional characteristics (at least I have not found any). While this book is not written for gay women, it nevertheless really helped me to understand the dating process as a gay woman myself in this unique emotional category. I found Wayne's discussion toward the end of his book on "masculine-feminine" polarities in dating extremely helpful as so few people discuss this important polarity dynamic in romantic relationships. I will read this book over many times and I am hopeful that it will help me in my dating and romantic life for many years to come.

Greetings! I will break down my opinions of his book into two sections: The Good and The Bad. The Good 1) His understanding and articulations of how attraction ACTUALLY works 2) HIs straight-forward, brotherly style of communicating. In other words, the writing is NOT difficult to understand. One should be able to read the entire book in one sitting. The aspects towards the end of the book on how to effectively communicate with women when one is in a relationship. That part of the book is solid and deserves an expansion in my opinion. His methods are excellent and very helpful. 4) His encouraging and empowering language used IN THE BOOK (his videos and new letters are VERY different which I will address below.) 5) The use of spiritual teachings to better understand women. The focus on getting right with you FIRST to attract the best possible mate. The Bad 1) Extremely poor grammar. Honestly, this part was a major problem for me. If one has a college degree, one shouldn't make so many glaring errors. 2) Typos. There are several typos. It's just sloppy and shows lack of respect towards the reader. PROOFREAD! 3) It's a bit repetitive. I would like to see this part improved in later editions. When one needs to repeat themselves excessively, then one isn't articulate enough to make the point in the first place. The most wise know how to explain complex issues with simple terms and words. 4) His gynocentrism. His treatment of, attitude towards and language selection when dealing with women betrays this basic fact. He is kind, considerate, patient, understanding and lovingly towards ALL women, even when the women are undeserving of such treatment while he belittles and vilifies men who don't fit his idea of "alpha". 5) His treatment of men in his videos and news letters. He is quite nasty and rude to most of the men who write in. He constantly calls them "pussies", "pathetic", "weak", and other unhelpful, hurtful and condescending terms. As if ripping them to shreds is going to help. My guess is that it's a reflection of how his mother and father treated him (as he mentions in his book). If I were with him in person and he treated me or any other man in that manner, I would choose not to be around him or get into a physical altercation with him (because, frankly, he would deserve it. You can't mess with a snake all day and then cry "FOUL" when it bites you and you end up in the ER.) It's just unnecessary and uncalled for. You don't help others but being rude and nasty. 6) Delivery time. It took two weeks for the book to arrive. That is completely unacceptable this day and age. Get it to me in less than a week. Period. 7) His OBSESSION with the concepts of "alpha" and "beta" to describe men. It's been long understood that human beings don't function in that manner but he blindly follows those notions, to the point of revulsion. 8) He is incongruent with his words, ideas and concepts. Example: Decrying movies and TV shows one minute, and then using movies and TV shows as positive examples. Using movies as a basis for how the "real world" functions is poor cognitive reasoning, PERIOD. He never uses books or literature as an example, which causes me to believe he is poorly-read. It's almost impossible for ME to respect any man who is poorly--read. It's almost impossible for ME to respect any man who is poorly-read. Lastly, he reenforces the notion that women are NOT moral agents nor are the responsible for their actions. It's just their "emotions" and if something is wrong, it's your fault as the man and it's your responsibility to fix the problem. I, for one, think that women are moral agents and should be accountable for their behavior. 10) He is not in a long-term relationship DESPITE years of dating. I am weary of fat people telling me how to lose weight, broke people telling me how to make money and single people telling me how to maintain long-term relationships. It's his choice to remain single, but I can't take his advise seriously when he doesn't live it. I gave the book four stars in total because it's a great place to start if you are struggling with your dating life. However, once you read it and explore those that influenced his work, you will realize that most of his ideas are unoriginal or simply plagiarized. The perfect example is his use of the "3% man". That is taken from Doc Love, verbatim. Yet, he passes it off as his own. I would suggest that you read the book, learn the concept, then go on to greener fields. He understands certain aspects of women very well, but he is smug, condescending and sanctimonious. As a mentor, he fails horribly. As a business man, and dating coach (I.E. getting laid), he is tops.

Best book ever! I have read it at least 10 times. and giving away 10 or more.save my life in maney ways.

If you know you know. If you're buying this book, it's likely because you're watching the videos and finally wizened up to listen to the advice. BUY IT. I'm admittedly on just my 5th read as I achieved my goals within the first few reads, but now years into a relationship I find myself revisiting the guide which I thought I didn't need as much as I was recommended by Corey but like I said, if you know you know. If this is making sense to you then congratulations, you're on your way to becoming the best version of yourself and meeting your own goals, "no matter" what they may be. I've recommended this book endlessly to friends and buddies that fall into the same tired traps that we men do, but like you, they think they all know better and go about it the same tired ways, ending the same tires way every time. Like they say, you can lead a horse to water..

Hey guys ... Listen up ... What Corey Wayne teaches really does work ... It isn't magic. It isn't bulletproof. But it will get you the best possible results. The hardest part is believing, agreeing to take the risk and just going along with Corey's advice. It took me quite a lot of time to summon enough courage to do so, but once I did manage to apply the book's principles, my situation improved immensely. My problem basically was that I had an easy time meeting and hooking up with women, but as I grew older, women started expecting better boyfriend material, and I was a pretty bad prospect in that department. Also, I didn't have very much success with the kind of woman I am really into. Today, as in this week, I've got dates with four women I really like. I know I can have many more, and I know it's just a matter of time before I finally end up with a happy relationship. What really convinced me that CW's approach is good is what happens whenever I diverge from the right path : bad consequences immediately follow. So at some point, I realized that doing anything less than what the book preaches always leads to inferior results. At any rate ... give yourself at least 6 to 12 months to internalize everything before you settle your judgement. Like CW says, read the book 10 to 15 times, practice like crazy, and be prepared to date 20 or 30 women before you finally get a perfect hang of it.

The book I wish I had 15 years ago, it was recommended to me and the time in my life where I know ive opened my life to welcoming my first relationship and this book by this man is a guide that should be taught on understanding men and woman. No matter where you are in the dating or relationship phase of your life, read it and then read it again and then re-read it till its 2nd nature.

Great

Conforme à la description

Thank you Corey Wayne and fast shipping from Amazon. This book helped me about becoming a true man and is a guide for relationships

He is adamant that you read the book 10-15 times to seriously absorb the information. I'm on my 8th read within 6 months and with every read something new reverberates with me. It truly is a golden nugget packed with really simple scenarios and an understanding of how women respond to men's behaviours. It is also an amazing insight into how attraction really works between men and women. It is not some technique book, it actually transforms your inner belief and how you interact with the world. The more times you read it (and watch his thousands of YouTube videos) the more you genuinely feel a difference within. In the real world when you apply what he teaches it is unbelievable. As he states in the book "once you master the understanding of women and find your true centre, it will spill into other areas of your life". It certainly has for me. I've never felt so content, confident and comfortable being myself. It's a process, not a quick fix. It has also inspired me to seek out other self-help books and generally get my shit together. Don't cherry pick the video information, get this book and bring it with you everywhere. I plan to read it AT LEAST 15 times.

I enjoy reading the book. Sometimes I laughed, because in many pages I see myself. Totally clueless about women and relationships. I know for sure it's GOD leading me to read this book because HE wants me to have a Great marriage. I will read 15 times as told by the Author. I finished reading twice and have started applying it. I am from North East India. I am proud I am a 3% man. Thankyou Corey Wayne.